“What can I do? I just couldn’t stand being ignored. It’s just too painful!” she said.
As we look deeper, we found out that throughout the 7-minute phone conversation, they were both laughing and were having great exchange. And it didn’t come to her to feel being ignored until the minute when he had to hang up the phone.
So, what happen to the 6 minutes when you were not ignored, when you were having a good time with him? Isn’t it strange that you were waiting to indict him, to live out your belief that “you will always be ignored”.
Maybe we can see what is truer?
“He did not ignore me”
Yes, he didn’t ignore me. He was giving me his full attention for the 6 minutes.
“I ignore him”
When he said he wanted to hang up, I was angry with him and ignored him totally.
“I ignore me”
I wasn’t taking good care of myself. I wanted him to do that for me.
Life can be a lot simpler when we take time to inquire the truth.